Planning a Romantic Getaway with Your Girl

Whenever time and money allow, no one can resist the charm of a romantic getaway. There’s always something about being on a ‘romantic getaway’ even if it’s just a trip to some small log cabin in the next town. There’s something about planning on what to do in your time alone together. And especially for the ladies, it is even more special and touching when the man initiates it himself.

If you’re planning to put some of your romantic gear for your ladylove through a sweet holiday escape, here are some tips to make it extra, extra special and transform the usual R n’ R into something of “Romance n’ Rawrrr”.

  • Budget. You either have to have the money for it, or find some place that will fit within your budget. When it comes to budget, there are three things that you actually have to consider and I’ll categorize them into Before, During, and After. The ‘Before’ part covers all the expenses you will incur prior to the getaway. Would you need to buy new clothes for it? Don’t forget to add gas money (if driving) or plane/train tickets for transportation. The ‘During’ part includes all the expenses for lodging, food, and activities. If you have the money, splurge! Here are Forbes’ top vacation spots, just in case. You don’t want to miss out on the town’s popular bungee jumping amenity do you? The ‘after’ part is where most people – not just men – fail. Sure you have budget for souvenirs and the ride back home, but will you have enough for the next work day or are you going home flat broke? Make sure you have enough cushion money between rich and broke even after the holiday is over.
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If you have the money, by all means, take her to a Carribean cruise.

  • Time. The last thing you want is to spend all your big bucks on a Caribbean cruise and find out later that she was not granted leave. Make sure you both have the time for the getaway – enough time for fun and romance that is. There is very little quality without some quantity on this one! And when you do find the time for it, make sure you spend it wisely.
  • Have a plan. So you have the money, you got your time off from work, and you’re ready to leave. Now what? When you’ve found the perfect destination, make sure you do your fair share of research to know what the place offers. Have an itinerary of things that you would do while there – but stay flexible! Here are some of the best places to go on a date. Don’t be such a prick if it rains on your supposed kite-flying date at the beach.
  • Plan a special surprise. It could be a wedding proposal, a special romantic dinner at the hotel rooftop, or a new set of sizzling hot lingerie. Whatever it is, plan something that will make the event very memorable, especially for her.

Guys, here’s the truth about women: it’s never always about how expensive the holiday is; it’s about how special you made us feel on our time alone. Be your sweetest, most romantic self and let out your inner Dr Love. If you are still unsure of what to do, read this SIBG guide.

How to Be Date-Ready Every Day

I was looking at my blog posts and I realized I’ve been writing about not-so-happy posts like relationship problems, cheating and breakups. So here I am trying to make up for it. Hope ya like it!

Women are notorious for extreme preparations. While some of us in the female kind may have missed the gene that says we are always ready for any event, most of us are wired to be ready for anything. If you check a woman’s bag, you’ll be surprised to find everything from an extra stash of flip flops (for when the legs give way for standing in heels for hours), an extra pair of undies, to some surprise stash of glue to go with her makeup kit. On top of that, women seem to have the knack to be date-ready at any given day. They wear clothes that can go from sun up to sun down, from the office to the club kind of look. Needless to say, women are good at preparing for surprises – even surprise dates.

But what about you men? How well prepared are you if life does throw you a surprise date in the face? Would you be caught dead by a woman in better-left-at-home shirts and three-week-old jeans or would you politely decline because you’re ready? How do you make sure you always ready for a date every day?

Here are some tips that you can get from girls:

  • Always keep an emergency stash of everything. In your office drawer, gym
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    Brush your teeth, keep some box of floss in your pocket or bag, breath mints or spray, and shower regularly.

    locker, or car trunk, make sure you have your go-to bag for surprise dates a la Superman. Your emergency stash should have an extra shirt, some clean pair of socks, and cleaning implements like toothbrush and deodorant. When it comes to stocking emergency clothes, always go for items that go well with anything.

  • Keep a hygienic lifestyle. Brush your teeth, keep some box of floss in your pocket or bag, breath mints or spray, and shower regularly. The only things worse than be caught in a fashion mishap on a date are hygiene-related mishaps i.e. bad breath, food stuck between teeth, bad body odor, etc.
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Keep some cash, coins, and credit cards safely in your wallet. You’ll never know where you’d end up for dinner so at least be ready and don’t run the risk of having to ask your date to pay for your dinner.

  • Always have cash. Seriously, how can anyone go through a day outside without cash? Keep some cash, coins, and credit cards safely in your wallet. Although there may be rules on who should pay and when, it is always wise to be ready especially if you’re asking a date out spontaneously. You’ll never know where you’d end up for dinner so at least be ready and don’t run the risk of having to ask your date to pay for your dinner because you were not financially equipped that day.
  • Wear good clothes. Your favorite jeans that recently had a hole close to the crotch area and whose rips at the leg seams could barely see another day are better left at home. In the attic. With the rats. Or at least for when you’re fixing your car or going fishing or cleaning the trash bin. You should never wear bad clothes when you go out because you might not get a chance to run home for a quick change.
  • Keep your communication lines open. So you’re ready for any last minute date. You have everything else above but you forgot to charge your phone and you are nowhere near an electric outlet. Hah! Tough luck! Never leave the house with an almost dead phone – remember that for all kinds of emergencies.

Lastly, and naturally, it pays to read good advice on how and where to meet women.

Solving Relationship Problems: What Women Want from Men When Problems Arise

My mother always tells me that problems, fights, arguments are the spices of the relationship. It’s not enough that you know how to get a girl to like you, you also need to understand women. They add some flavor and variety to an otherwise sickly sweet relationship. These things make the relationship more interesting and exciting and dynamic – it makes it alive. They make or break a relationship and those who make it come out stronger.

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Women have different ways of coping.

The biggest challenges are not the problems themselves but on how to overcome them. Even when your woman is cheating, it doesn’t mean dead end. Women have different ways of coping, men have different ways of coping with it but what actually matters is on how couples resolve the conflict where their methods meet halfway.
Sometimes, and a lot of women – myself included – complain about how men cope with the trouble that of make the problem even worse than it is. While women tend to blow things out of proportion, men tend to underestimate the problem and that irks us women up.

From a woman’s perspective, here are things that we hope our men would do during a conflict:

  • Calm us down. Women overreact. Women panic – a lot. It must be a hormonal thing but the first thing that comes to women’s minds is panic. And it gets worse when our partners get mad at us for panicking. Men should do otherwise. One effective way to calm women is through silence. Yes, you don’t know the power of silence until you try it. Instead of going against the flow of your woman’s angry energy, calm us down. Women rely on men’s logic on so many things and in conflict situations, that’s what we hope to get from you.
  • Speak up. Some men just space out in the middle of the problem. If you need time for yourself, if you need the space to think things through, by all means say it! You’re afraid we’d flip out? Yes but if you say it honestly, chances are we’d give you the peace that we think we both need. Having you around, disinterested and cold, would only dishearten us even more and worsen the situation.
  • Don’t laugh at us. Nothing irks me more than when my partner laughs like a maniac when I’m already hysterical and impassioned over a fight. It annoys us to think that you’re not taking us seriously. If you think we are overreacting, say so and say why. We also know how to listen you know.
  • Disappear. Ahh I know some men who are better at walking out and go missing than the best actors in Hollywood history. Really? REALLY?!! Walk out and leave your girl thinking whether you’ve deserted her for life or if you’re dead or kidnapped by Martians. Seriously, though, I don’t know how some women can notoriously deal with it on a regular basis.

And finally, sometimes all it takes is a HUG. A tight, quiet, sincere embrace could encourage us better than any form of poetry. It takes nothing more than a hug to quietly, effectively reassure us that we are in this problem together and we’re going to make it through this.

Now I’d be so interested to know what men would expect from women in relationship-crises situations.

How to Break Up With a Girl

Interestingly, this looks like a sequel to my last post. Enjoy!

Breaking up is always hard to do, unless you were born with a heart as cold as stone. It does not even matter who is breaking up with who; there will always be attachments to the relationship no matter how bad or short or shallow it was.

And to be the one who’s breaking it off – especially if it is not a mutual decision – is even harder. And if you think that’s the hardest part, ask any guy who has ever had to break up with his girlfriend. Any sensitive, normal male human being with normal emotions has always had to suck it all on, muster every ounce of courage just to say the right words while trying hard to do as little damage to the girl as possible.

Thanks to the male-dominated society of ours that has been wired to believe that women are weak and will breakdown, women are expected to break up with men just as society dictates that men should pursue the women. And any reversal of roles would be tantamount to social ridicule.

That is why for most men, breaking up with women is just as crucial as a brain surgery. You try your best to do the least damage even when you know you’re tearing her apart. That even when she does not care about you, a woman would feel demoralized at the thought of getting the blow of breakup instead of having to do it.

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Comfort her when she breaks down.

Here’s a cheat sheet from a woman to a man on how to properly breakup with a girl:

  •  Give nonverbal clues prior to breaking up. You don’t breakup with your girl on a whim, right? It’s not some act of impulse so naturally and logically I believe you’ve thought about it. Do not take her by surprise; if you have been thinking about it for a while, at least try to detach from her little by little. When you propose the “we need to talk” meeting, she’d most likely get a clue. Be careful on this part, though. There are cases when breakup hints are misinterpreted as marriage proposals. No kidding!
  • Do it when you’re alone. Do not do it in public; some of us girls just can’t beat the pressure and breakdown. Don’t do it with your friends or hers – it’s between you two.
  • Don’t be confrontational and aggressive. Try as best as you can to stay calm and composed.
  • Be honest. There’s a fine line between honesty and rudeness; you are not taking this opportunity to slap her in the face of all her shortcomings as a girlfriend (I have every reason to believe she has her own armoire of complaints on your being a boyfriend).
  • Don’t let her speak until you’ve finished. Let her listen to what you have to say. Again, do this calmly and honestly.
  • Don’t make empty promises. Don’t let her hang on top false hopes like ‘I just need this time to sort things out but I’ll be back” or “we can still be friends”. That’s not what she hopes to hear.
  • Listen to her when she tries to reason out, comfort her when she breaks down, don’t get mad when she gets mad, and don’t let her hang on to something you’re not sincere about. Finish it off with a sincere apology and an offer to take her home or call her friend.

Now before trying to ask another girl out, read this blog post at SonicSeduction.net.

My Girlfriend’s Other Boyfriend

One’s lonely, two’s a party and three is…a third party?

While open relationships are still getting more and more popular among many unconventional couples, there still are men who are hidden in the secret quarters as the “other boyfriend”. They are the ones who are usually content with secret calls, secret dates, and secret codes.

The problem with this kind of setup is, even if you know all the best date places, you can’t just go to them, for fear that people might see you together.

I am not talking about guys who are going out with players and are unaware of what’s going on behind his back. I am talking about guys who actually go behind the back of other men to sneak in on their girls.

There are three common types of men who agree to be the other men:

  • The I’ll-do-it-all-for-love type of guy. They are aware that their girlfriends are taken and they don’t care. They live for their clandestine meetings and they’re doing it out of love. And worse, they are willing to wait for the day the girl finally “musters the courage to break up with their current loves” and give up everything only for him.
  • Mr. Competition. They are the type of men who live for the competition. They love the rush of getting to snag a girl even when she’s already dating someone. They get a certain sense of ego high from knowing a girl would cheat for them; but they are not keepers. They are in it for the competition and they lose interest in the women as soon as she falls for him and gives up her current love.
  • In-It-Just-For-The-Sake-Of-It. Just as the name suggests, they cheat with another girl just because. No romantic reason, no psychological whatever thingamajigs, na-da. They enjoy the company when it’s there, and they’re practically fine with someone else too. For whatever reason you or a guy friend is in it, there are enough reasons to break it off.
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Whether you’re her first or second boyfriend, it still makes you the third party. Is it worth it?

  • Yes, including you Mr I’ll-do-it-all-for-love. Let me talk you out of it with these reasons:

Karma is just around the corner. With your fifteen minutes of happiness being the other guy, some other guy is getting disadvantaged. And if the universe turns its karma button on you, what goes around comes around and you may be in the exact same position as that other guy too in some other moment in your life.

What makes you think you’re the only one? Dear men, girls can be players too. So if she’s cheating on him for you, what assures you that he is not double-cheating on her girlfriend and you?

It may not be the safest place to be. You can never be too sure that you’re the only one she’s hooking up with, or that her current fling does not own a gun and has anger management issues. Hooking up with some other guy’s girl may just endanger your health or your life.

Regular ones are less complicated. You can go out freely and in the open without any danger of being seen by people her boyfriend knows. Plus you don’t feel like the booty call guy so your ego and dignity is intact at the end of the day.

Remember, there is plenty of fish in the ocean! If you need help in meeting new women, click here. You’ll get all the help you’ll need. Go fishing!

How Social Media Can Hurt Your Relationship

Everyone is on Facebook. Even my 50-something mom finds her way tinkering through Likes and Shares and comments. And I cannot even decide where to begin on telling you the tales of how many people are on Twitter and Instagram. It would probably be easier to count how many are not on any of the social media sites around.

I was pretty content on doing my thing on Facebook – liking stuff, sharing them someone who is a million miles away from me, and reading about other people’s and couple’s life updates.  It was okay until it started bugging me how other couples talk about their personal problems on Facebook, how they indirectly target each other in posts and comments and how they break-up-and-make-up on the social media portal. And it gets worse when you’re friends with both of them. I had the urge to message them both and tell them how it would be so much easier if they take everyone else out of the problem and talk about it ALONE. But, the most that I could do was ‘hide’ them from my News Feed and be spared of their little fights.

Social media can make or break a relationship. Be careful!

Social media can make or break a relationship. Be careful!

 And then it annoyed me even further when my supposed anti-social girlfriend started getting friend requests and messages from unknown men. I am just happy she never responded to them, but it still didn’t feel too good when other men made pretty apparent advances with their private messages EVEN WHEN THEY COULD DELIBERATELY SEE THAT SHE WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP and the photo on his profile says exactly that.

I was lucky she ignored them all and kept her Facebook with only two friends (me and my mom). If I discovered she was taking it with them to the next level, I would have had my heartbreak then. But other girls didn’t have it as easily. I know a couple who broke up over a girl whom the guy met on FB. Isn’t that just such an annoying way to end a relationship? Oh, yeah, that too. They broke up on the site too. *facepalm meme here*

How Social Media Can Hurt A Relationship

All this realization got me thinking however: whose fault is it when relationships are affected by your involvement on social media sites – yours or the sites? I take the former. Here are some of the most common ways your social media behavior hurts your relationship:

1. Divulging too much – I don’t understand how others find delight in telling the world the dirtiest detail of their personal problems and being ‘feasted on’ by so-called Facebook friends. There is a clear distinction between private and social and personal fights are rather kept private. Go ahead, tell your FB friends the best dating places you two have discovered, but please do away without the intimate photos. You are subjecting your relationship to opinions that really don’t matter and that could sway how you should deal with your problems. And oh, unless you guys are totally over, stop playing with the relationship status button.

2. Believing too much – the internet can create wings on lions and you can be practically anything you want to be on the web. Do not believe everything people say about you or your partner on Facebook or risk losing your relationship over some fake comment.

3. Entertaining too much – there just are things on Facebook that are better left ignored. Like the sexy bikini photo of some girl you knew in college – liking that can create a war. Or answering back to a provocative message flirtatiously – really man, why?

4. Privacy issue – I’ve seen couples fight and break up over passwords. But ask yourself, do I need to share my passwords with him/her? How much do you trust each other over your passwords? How private should you be on your social media sites?

Like everything and anything, social media requires a lot of responsibility. And yes, it should not be as valuable as your relationship. Handle it well!

Being in a digital age doesn’t mean signing up for all the new networking sites. It entails responsibility from every member, too, to protect their own privacy. And if you can’t handle rejection, might as well stay away from these sites as much as you can so as not to anger your partner.

Hope you learned a little something from me today! TIll next time!

-Dr. Mahen

How Being A Heptanesian Made Me An Expert Flirt!

Recently I was out on a mini tour of the Heptanesian islands, and I was amazed at the amount of progress that we have made as a county. Being a dating guru I always get questions on my relationship abilities everywhere I go. After posting on the best places to go on a date I got a couple of questions from the regular readers of the Heptanesian Chronicles -

  • “Mahen, shall I buy flowers to impress my girl?”
  • “Mahen, how should I dress up? Formal or what?”
  • “Mahen, should I wear my red bow tie?”"

All rather valid questions I must say. If you want to impress the girl that you are dating then you must be prepared to put your best foot forward. Seriously. The dating game is hard, and you will have to put your “game” face on. Every single time.

Being A Flirt – The Key To Seduction Success

Now every guy must be able to master the game of being a flirt if he wants to be successful at dating and seduction. There’s absolutely no question about that at all. If you want to make a girl fall in love with you then you must put in the work. Success does not come too easily. Trust me on this.

She was once a hottie too! Random picture taken off the streets on Mumbai

She was once a hottie too! Random picture taken off the streets on Mumbai

The most essential skill that a man must have in order to be good with women is to master the art of flirting. If you want some really good resources on how to be a flirt, then read this article. It has got probably the most sane, level-headed advice I have seen in literally years. Women have known that being good flirt will put them ahead at work. Don’t believe me? Check out this Huffington Post article. A mind-blowing read.

But I digress…

Mastering the art of flirting will always be tricky – because learning how to flirt alone is not sufficient without ample practice. You need to get out there and get rejected in order to be good at dating! Don’t learn “seduction” in a vacuum. That is a surefire mistake. Instead, engage (women!) on a daily basis and you will soon be a seduction superstar.

How To Seduce Women – A Recommended Resource

Meanwhile, if you need to learn up on seduction techniques and tactics, always remember that there are good online resources out there. My favorite is the Seduction FAQ blog which I have covered many, many times on this blog. I knew the blog writer through the Internet via a chatroom called the Mystery Lounge many, many years back, and he has been imparting his seduction wisdom through his writings which have since been culminated in the SeductionFAQ.com blog. If you want his best techniques and tips then read this article on how to seduce women. It’s killer content.

So the bottom line is this – learn everything you can about dating, love and seduction online, but move offline in order to practice your chops. Easy peasy! :)

Meanwhile, I read this news article about Obama cutting his own pay in order to show solidarity with workers. Well, that sure is impressive, and I admire him for having the guts to do this. Way to go, Obama!

Best Places to Go on a Date – The Heptanesian Approach

Today’s article on dating and seducing women is inspired by this video clip -

Deciding which place to go can be a difficult part in dating. Sometimes, it can be frustrating for both parties to decide where to go. And when you finally agreed on it, you end up disliking it. This is why it is important to plan ahead when setting out a date. Here are some great suggestions of activities and places that can make the dating process even more romantic and enjoyable.

Certainly Not in a Movie House

“Mahen, what? You serious? The movie house is like one of the most abused places to go for a date. I want something that’s unique and something else.”

Well, my friend, watching a movie might be a very common think already. But to tell you the truth, it is still one of the most preferred places by dating couples in the world. In fact, a lot of people who are dating today watch movies every so often and they don’t get bored with it. In addition, most serious and long lasting relationships nowadays started up watching movies together. And only a few couples, if there are any, have never been into watching movies for a date.

So don’t underestimate the power of watching movies and eating popcorns. We never know how it might lead you to the next level of your relationship. It’s not boring. It’s healthy. And it’s a surefire way on how to win a girl’s heart – believe it.

A Picnic in a Park

“A picnic, Dr Mahen? Pffft! Old School!”

Yes, it is old school. But the old school thing is what makes it unique for today’s generation. In fact, old school is trending. People of today want to do things usually done in the past but are rarely done nowadays. This explains why people usually choose party themes as “retro”.

So try finding a nice park near your place and start packing up your favorite food and drinks. Oh, and don’t forget to bring a mat that’s big enough to accommodate the two of you and your food stuff. It’s old school but it’s romantic… and a surefire way to win a girl over by connecting with her emotionally.

Joy Riding

“Nah, not joy ride please. That’s too expensive.”

Yes it is expensive. That’s why couples don’t prefer this kind of date. But it’s the joy part of joy riding that matters, not the riding part. You see the point in it? If you find it financially demanding, then you can just plan it ahead and set aside some money for it. That way money won’t ever be a problem at all.

With joy riding, both of you can be wherever you want and do whatever you want. In short, it can be a package date: lunch date, dinner date, watching sunset together, star gazing at night, or watching the sun rise. It’s an all-in-one kind of date. If you still want to skimp over things, then try meditation.

All in all, with the right place for a date, you can have the best date ever. In every dating place, you will leave a footprint of your memory together and a perfectly chosen dating place is what makes the dating extra special. It is an important part in having a strong and healthy relationship with your partner.

-Dr Mahen

What to Do When a Girl Ignores You

Alright, if you have read my previous blog posts (here and here) then you’ll realize that I have problems with women. As I am fixing my dating life I have made some important realizations about the opposite sex. So I am devoting this blog post to a tricky question – what to do when a girl ignores you?

Whether you want to win over the heart of your dream girl who doesn’t know you exist or get your ex girlfriend back, the overall idea that you have to look into will pretty much be the same: you will need to learn what to do when a girl ignores you. In other words, you need to inject some romance and communication in your life.

See, girls love little romantic gestures, like getting chocolates and flowers and walking under the moonlight. So, if you want to know what to do when a girl ignores you, just put some effort into wooing her and you will go a long way. If you persist long enough, she will give in – and remember that persistence is the key ingredient if you want to know how to get a girlfriend quickly.

Observe her closely, for example, without making it too obvious. Learn more about her tastes and habits. Watch how she dresses, how she makes her coffee, and learn about which movies, restaurants and books she likes. Here are several other ideas for you to look into, so you’ll know what to do when a girl ignores you next time:

1. Talk and listen.

If you want a girl to stay interested in you, then you have to change the way that you communicate with her. Communication happens to be a big problem in a lot of relationships, so don’t keep your own feelings bottled up. Tell her exactly how you feel and make sure you listen when she talks, too.

While she talks, make sure you don’t start wondering about what you should say next, either. Just listen to her and try to figure out why she is saying what she is saying. Try to figure out how she feels, as well, and then fix it accordingly. Dr Phil wrote a good article which was posted at this link.

2. Learn to compromise.

Girls are very different from guys, so it only makes sense that they have different views, outlooks, likes and dislikes from you. As such, you shouldn’t expect girls to share all of your opinions. In fact, you should learn to respect theirs and try not to win when it comes to arguments and fights. If you really like a girl, then find an acceptable solution to any problems that you might have and you will end up in a much happier place afterwards – believe it. If you need to calm your nerves, you should meditate (using brainwave entrainment programs for example).

3. Forgive and forget.

If you are at a complete loss on what to do when a girl ignores you after a fight, then learn to forgive and forget – especially if the fight was over petty things. Don’t talk about the past as much as possible, either, and try not make mountains out of molehills. If something still bothers you afterwards, talk about it and try to resolve things together. Then, simply move on and live in the present.

Now, if nothing seems to work and you still have no idea what to do when a girl ignores you, then you might want to see a counselor with her or alone. Trained relationship counselors can actually be very helpful in bringing you through your difficulties and might just be exactly what you need in order to get things back on track. If you need more help, check out sites like askmen dotcom or http://octobermansequence.org for example.

I hope you liked that I wrote above. Email me with questions!

-Dr Mahen

The Heptanesian Connection:- How to Connect Emotionally With a Woman

There are a lot of men that have no problem finding an attractive woman to date, but connecting with her on an emotional level is a different story. After a while, many men discover that the woman they’re dating isn’t the one for them. This is usually because she doesn’t hold the same values or views on certain issues. Other times, it’s simply because they do not connect emotionally. It is very hard to emotionally connect with a woman after you have been dating her for a while. In order to have a meaningful, long lasting relationship with a woman you need to connect with her emotionally from the beginning. So, how do you connect emotionally with a woman?

How To Connect With A Woman Emotionally

The first step to connecting emotionally with a woman is getting to know her. Many men think that knowing where she works and how many siblings she has is enough. Unfortunately, if you want to truly connect with her, you’ll need to know more than this. Sometimes it can be awkward to have deep conversations with her, but it is necessary for building a solid foundation. The more you know about her, the more you will be able to understand her. You’ll know why she acts certain ways around certain people and why she is in a bad mood. Just as you need to know her on a deep level, she needs to know you on a deep level. It is important that you both know each other on the same level so that you will be able to connect with each other long term. :)

After you have both found out a great deal of information about each other, you need to start asking her for input. In order to connect with a woman emotionally, you need her to feel like she is equal.This article in Psychology Today magazine explains precisely why.

If you always make the decisions, she won’t feel like you are taking her into account. For example, instead of telling her which restaurant to meet you at, tell her that you had a certain restaurant in mind but wanted to make sure that she would like it.

As you’ve probably realized by now, it’s the little things that matter when it comes to connecting with a girl. While guys tend to look at the big picture, women have a tendency to over-analyze small things. Because of this, you need to make sure that you shift your attention from the big scale to the small scale. When you do this, you’re girlfriend will be happier and in turn you will be happier. It’s pointless to learn about tactics on how to seduce a woman but fail at understanding smaller things that matter.

Now that you know how to connect emotionally with a woman, you should be able to maintain more meaningful relationships. Even if you are physically attracted to a woman, it can be very hard to have a long-term relationship if you do not have a good understanding of each other. While it can be a lot of work to get to know your girlfriend on a deep level, it pays off in the end.

Any questions regarding this article? Leave me a message in the blog comment section below. :)

-Dr Mahen

PS: In my next blog article, I will expand further on the usage of brainwave entrainment (I have previously blogged about this) in meditation and relationships. Stay put!